We all know that good relationships need equality between two partners and this is also true in the bedroom. When it comes to our sex lives being able to satisfy your partner is important, but so is the ability to receive pleasure in return. Find out below if one of you is a give and one a taker or if both of you are consider sharers.
How to take the test:
You and your partner should both answer the questions truthfully. Choose the response that best corresponds with the way you feel and at the end add up your scores. You than can find out your individual profile and couple profile.
1. When you have sex, is it important
2.To have an orgasm
1.That your partner has an orgasm
3.That you orgasm
2. You have a strong desire to have sex but your partner doesn't, You:
2.Think you should do it anyway
3.Wait for them to be in the mood.
1.Your partner's levels of desire dictate your own.
3. Your Partner suggests a sexual act that you're not very keen on. You:
3.Jump to the new idea that it will give you both an opportunity to try something new.
2.Say No, as your honest with the way you feel.
1.Agree anyway
4. Your idea of sexuality?
1.Intimacy with another person.
2.Finding yourself through a deep relationship.
3.Two people learning together about love.
5. Your partner buys a sex toy. You:
2.You don't like surprises and wish they spoke with you first.
1.Are happy to go along with them if it increases their sexual pleasure.
3.Go out and buy one for yourself.
6. Seeing your partner naked makes you:
1.Want to show them off to the world.
2.Want to touch them.
3.Want to get naked as well!
7. You are suffering from low libido.
2.It won't last long, just a bit of stress at the moment.
3.You think you should try couples therapy.
1.You still try to satisfy the desires of your partner.
8. Which of the following corresponds with your most deeply held convictions?
3.Love and desire cannot exist without each other.
2.Love can exist without desire.
1.Desire can exist without love.
9. Which of the following are you most likely to say to your partner during sex?
1.Do you like that?
2.You're making me feel really good.
3.This is great, don't stop.
10. You have finished having sex, you like to:
1.Continue to hold your partner.
2.Lie side by side, saying nothing after your marathon secession.
3.Feeling their naked body next to yours.
11. Which of the following excites you the most about your partner?
1.When you are giving them pleasure.
2.Their desire for you.
3.Feeling their naked body next to yours.
12. You receive a text from your partner. Which of the following messages are you most likely to receive?
2.I'm touching myself, thinking about you.
3.I can't wait until we see each other tonight.
1.Send me a naughty photo of yourself.
13Which of the following best describes sexual desire?
1.I want you to want me.
2.Let's get undressed.
3.Take me.
14. Your partner is keen on trying new positions. You:
2.You can't wait and have already bought Karma Sutra.
3.Are happy to try them if they could increase your pleasure.
1.Wish you had a mirror so that you could watch your sexual choreography in action.
15. What is your opinion of affairs?
3.Fine if you both agree it is ok to have an open relationship.
2.Fine, but they should remain a secret.
1.They shouldn't be allowed- your partner would suffer too much.
Now add up how may times you choose each number,
You
1 2 3
Your partner
1 2 3
Mostly 1's
You like to give
You like to respond to your partner's desires before they even express them. You use your intuition and are always looking for a little present for your partner. You rarely, if ever demand anything in return. You are known for opening yourself up too much but that's you. Sexually, you are always on the lookout for the moment when you can abandon yourself to your partner.
Mostly 2's
You like to receive
Opening yourself up to what your partner can give you is the best present you could offer. You take from your partner what they are prepared to give and there is no limit to what you could take. It's not that you don't know how to give, just you feel you were born to receive and being true to yourself means accepting what others have to give. You are sexually creative and love the fact that your partner gives you their most intimate part of themselves to you.
Mostly 3's
You like to share
You can't imagine being only a giver or a receiver. You prefer to negotiate with your partner over each act. You give the best you have to offer, but you also accept with pleasure what your partner give to you. You believe that love is about sharing and you prove it through your actions. A sexual relationship means alternating between giving and receiving. Laughing together when you have sex is also a sign of sharing. When you get to this point you know you have achieved a real compatibility with someone.
What you score says about you as a couple
Giver + Sharer = a hidden bonus
There's a plus side to your relationship: one of you gives and the other receives, but the one who receives can also give. Each of you knows you will be happy in the relationship because you have a fulfilling sex life. Be careful not to play down your partner’s role. Because when the giver wants to give, they can be left feeling frustrated. To grow as a couple you need to pay attention to each other's desires. The good news is that together you have already learned to do this.
Giver + Giver = who receives
The main question in your relationship is, "who should take?" You are both generous that you risk not being able to explore the complementary parts of your personalities. You are very alike but this can mean you may lose sight of the other person. You will need to open yourself up to someone else's tenderness: it exists in all of us.
Giver + Receiver = perfect balance
This relationship appears to provide the perfect balance. When one gives, the other receives. You soon lean what the other likes because you complement each other. Unfortunately couples can evolve and the functions each partner performs can change. Be inventive; look for new ways of doing things-meet each other half way and experiment.
Receiver + Receiver = take at all costs
Take, take, take! That's the theme in this relationship, but someone needs to give if you are going to take. You are so much alike that you are always waiting for the other to take the lead. You know what your partner needs and wants but you can't provide it. You need to give graciously, by practising giving as often as you can. You will learn how pleasurable it can be.
Receiver + Sharer = a promise kept
One of you wants to take, so it follows that the other should give. And as the other person wants to share, which can include giving, everything should run smoothly between you. You are open to new experiences and you are happy to fulfil each other's fantasies. To keep moving forward as a couple, the person who prefers to receive must learn to give. That way both of you will be able to keep your promises.
Two sharers = the sky's the limit
There are four of you in your relationship which is why you are so perfect for each other. If you meet each other's desires equally your sex life will be a long lasting and exciting. You have probably done some self-analysis to get to the point where you can freely share with another person. You could experiment by taking on the role and the giver, and your partner the receiver. Explore all the possibilities.
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Sunday, 18 April 2010
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Sunday, 7 February 2010
iPhone the new Sex tool
Who would have thought the iPhone would be used as a sex tool. Whether you are trying to get pregnant or looking for a more natural contraceptive method the MeFertil allows you to keep track of your fertility information on your iPhone.
It works by you simply taking your temperature in the morning and entering your information. The app calculates when you are most fertile, picking out the best days to conceive or not conceive.
Its been such a success that Britain's first iPhone baby is due any day thanks to this nappy-cation which told the parents the best time to do iT.
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Monday, 4 January 2010
Sex Toys for Couples
Sex toys were originally designed for solo masturbation, portraying the stigma they should only be enjoyed by single girls or boys. Now companies have recognized the playful pleasure it can bring to couples. But with so many on the market which one should should you buy?
Here at Candylover we have complied a top 5 list of toys designed with the couple in mind.One of our favourites is The Climax Remote Egg; this powerful remote controlled egg has a slim removable applicator which helps your egg travel deeper! This cleaver little device allows you to enjoys 8 speeds and 6 functions of vibration and pulsation to create earth shattering sensations. Your partner can use the remote control from up to 20 feet away.
If you like gadgets the Oh Mi Bod is perfect weather you want to get off at the nightclub, to your iPod or in your bedroom this product is guaranteed to take you away. Slip on the thong with the bullet and clip the controller to your waist. Three modes include: Ambient-Vibrates to the sounds around you. Perfect for your lovers voice to tickle and tease you. Music-Vibrates to the beat of your iPod, iphone or mp3player. And Manual-choose from 7 vibrations patterns.
The Couples Extension Sleeve is the perfect toy; both partners get a toy each. Slip into this vibrating sleeve to give and receive endless amounts of pleasure. The super jelly sleeve is rippled along the shaft and has tine nodules to tickle and tease. Wear the bullet below and enjoy vibrations on your testicles or wear it above and stimulate your partner with every thrust!
A Candy Lover Best Seller, Clone a Willy makes play time fun. This easy to use kit allows you to create an exact rubber copy of your penis or partner’s penis. Fast, fun and comes complete with a vibrating unit to turn the dildo into a vibrator.
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